The Story of Happiness Court

Chapter 29 let him choose

"Your weakness is too obvious, because there are many things to worry about, let alone worrying about the country and the people, it can be seen from your writings.

What I want to tell you is that you worry too much about your child's obsession, and this worry has penetrated into the bone marrow, which is a problem.

A person, the more things to worry about, the more people to worry about, the more weaknesses and troubles.So, you have to let go.

Now, I have to tell you the truth. There is a saying in Chinese medicine that if it can be cured, it is not a disease. In other words, as long as it is a disease, it cannot be cured.

Inability to cure does not mean that we will give up, try to reduce the pain of the patient as much as possible, and strategically tell the optimistic patient and his family members not to spend unnecessary money on almost useless nutritional products and expensive medicines that can only aggravate the condition. our obligation.

According to statistics, the number of chronic diseases in the world, that is, chronic xing diseases, can be cured no more than a pair of hands.

Therefore, as a doctor, it is not recommended that the patient's family members try their best to do useless work for a relative who is obviously going to die soon.Whether it is a family member or a doctor, it is good to pay family affection, obligations and fulfill responsibilities, and minimize the pain of the patient.

This is symptomatic treatment.

Unfortunately, China's traditional virtues sometimes run counter to the original intention of humanitarianism.

Those filial sons and daughters believe that as long as their relatives live, even if they live for one more minute, a miracle may happen.

In fact, they pin their hopes on the illusory, unknown and mysterious expectations.

Unfortunately, this hope is doomed to fail.When the time comes, the relatives will be gone, and the money the family has worked hard for all their lives will be gone, and they will still owe a lot of debts. Life will be very difficult in the future.

If the deceased knew about it, he would probably feel even more guilty for what his loved ones did.

As for family affection, this thing is actually similar to other feelings.If you are not together for a long time, the relationship will weaken. If there is an episode at this time, such as a misunderstanding or something, or someone intervenes to vent your dissatisfaction with you, this misunderstanding will arise.

If everyone keeps it in their hearts, the longer the time, the deeper the misunderstanding, especially if one party has no knowledge and the other party does not give the other party a chance to know.

In this way, the better you treat him, in his heart, he will think that you have ghosts in your heart, it is a manifestation of guilty conscience, and you are good to him because you are covering up that you are sorry for him.

A good intention was taken as the liver and lungs of a donkey, and in this way, the misunderstanding turned into hatred in the end.

Light and darkness are actually symbiotic. Once light is suppressed by darkness, all ethics, conscience and even family affection will be annihilated, so tragedy will inevitably happen.

The same is true of human character.

There is no good old man forever, even among the closest relatives by blood, it is impossible to avoid this kind of thing from happening.

So, what I'm trying to say, do you understand? "

Leng Hanhui believed that a high-level writer and thinker like Liu had already seen through life and death, and he didn't need to be careful with his words, he could just say what was in his heart.

Leng Hanhui didn't know why he said these words. He didn't know that there is a saying in psychology called stubbornness.Even for normal people, as long as they talk for a long time, and they are afraid that the person listening to them will not understand, and they keep emphasizing one or several things, this phenomenon will happen.

In other words, since graduating from university, Leng Hanhui has basically never said such inexplicable words to anyone, including his good brother Shi Chengguang.

He feels thirsty again, which is also a physiological symptom of a psychological phenomenon.

While he was drinking water, Old Liu smiled and said softly to Leng Hanhui: "Thank you Han Hui, I know you are worried that I will feel awkward because of my son's ignorance.

It's just, you forgot, what profession do I have?I understand all these principles, just what you said, if you are a fan of the authorities, maybe I will think about it in the next moment, and it will be fine..."

"Hey, Huizi, what are you talking about? Why did Mr. Liu talk so much? Don't let Mr. Liu get tired." Qiu Yuning came to deliver the meal.

Mr. Liu's words were interrupted by Qiu Yuning.

I don't know how long this girl has been listening outside, because Leng Hanhui noticed that there was something called admiration in Qiu Yu's eyes when she looked at her.

However, Leng Hanhui's face was still flushed, he was playing tricks in class.Fortunately, Qiu Yuning came, otherwise, in front of a well-known ideological master and well-known writer, I would be embarrassed to think of so many scenes without shame.

Of course, Leng Hanhui also knew that he hadn't opened Liu Lao's knot at all.

Mr. Liu is still immersed in missing his son.

This has nothing to do with the amount of knowledge and whether you are open-minded or not. This is the magic of family affection.Once family love is deposited in the sea of ​​heart, it is very difficult to get it out.

In particular, the kind of affection that fathers and mothers have for their children is engraved in the bone marrow.

It's a pity that many, many children take the most precious and selfless family affection in the world for granted, and enjoy it without knowing the rewards. There are even more scumbags who gnaw on the old, hate the old, and think about it when they arrive. How to get all the old man's inheritance under his own name, and abandon such the most beautiful family relationship in the world like a piece of trash.

Thinking about things and thinking about things, words of thanks must be said immediately, this is a skill of Leng Hanhui.

"Qiu Yuning, thank you. I feel ashamed that you still have to come over to deliver food at such a late hour." Leng Hanhui was really ashamed.Not only for Qiu Yuning, but also for her overreaching and trying to reverse the trajectory of an old man's thoughts and feelings.

However, it seems that Mr. Liu is very satisfied with his performance, and his eyes are full of love.

"Little Shishi sent me here. This kid parked the car. I don't know where he drove an electric car. It's like a car, but it's very small. It can get into very narrow alleys and can only sit front and back. The kind for the two of you. You don’t need to take a driver’s license test, and you can learn to drive in 2 minutes, which is very fun.” Qiu Yuning began to take out dinner from the thermos as she spoke.

"This is the nutritious porridge I made for Mr. Liu, and the doctor ordered him to eat this kind of porridge.

This is braised pork ribs, vinegared Chinese cabbage and rice for you, a carnivore. Look, there is a whole bucket of rice, which is very in line with your personality: a big rice bucket!whee. "

Shi Chengguang ran in with a cold air all over his body: "Huizi, today that old Mrs. Zheng invited me to have another meal of dumplings. I see, she wants to trick you."

This sentence made Leng Hanhui and Qiu Yuning stunned at the same time, almost speaking in unison, they said together: "This is impossible!"

"How is it impossible? She said during the meal that a capable and kind person like Huizi is a natural manager of a domestic company. She plans to hire Huizi as the manager of her small company after a while." The vice president is also the chief trainer." Shi Chengguang said.

Qiu Yu said calmly to Xiao Shitou: "I have long expected that she would likely attack the wall, but Huizi will not go to her place, I firmly believe in that.

Wait a while, after he finishes his meal, I will tell him everything about Xingfuyuan and let him choose.

I'm going to show you who he will choose! "

Qiu Yuning is full of confidence. She definitely thinks that Leng Hanhui will never go to Mrs. Zheng's place to be a vice president or something. A housekeeping company that can't be too small is still run by women. With Leng Hanhui's temper , will definitely not go!