The Story of Happiness Court

Chapter 28 Just be a kind person

Leng Hanhui took a sip of water for Mr. Liu, and continued: "So, filial piety, this thing that contains self-awareness is the basis for a person to be different from beasts like lambs and crows.

These beasts are the instinct to survive and continue life, but human beings are not. This is a spiritual and moral realm, and it is the fundamental symbol to show that you are an individual.

The so-called animism is actually an expression of religious and religious thoughts, and it cannot explain the root of the problem.

As for the kneeling of the lamb and the feeding of the crow, they were used by the ancients to explain a truth, an inheritance, and an ethical relationship.Using animals as an example is the helpless wisdom of the ancients. "

Leng Hanhui looked at Elder Liu's face and found that he had no abnormal expression, which meant that the old man's mood had not changed greatly, so he continued: "Filial piety is actually the most basic thing to maintain a family and even social order. Spiritual and moral needs.

If a person even leaves his parents aside, this kind of person is really not worth thinking about. "

Leng Hanhui finally spoke his mind.

"Haha, I like your child's innocence! You are a sincere person who speaks like this. Only a person with a very clean heart will do this when scolding his son in front of his own father. My child, why are you not my real grandson? ? Or is it my son?

In other words, if my son doesn't come to see me, why doesn't my grandson come to see me, the grandfather who loved him since he was a child? "Old Liu's mood suddenly fell.

Leng Hanhui felt that this topic must be stopped.

Just now he deliberately mentioned Liu Jun many times, using metaphors and allusions, just to let Mr. Liu gradually adapt to the situation, that is, Liu Jun will not come to see him again.

For some reason, Leng Hanhui has now determined that there must have been some irreconcilable conflict between Mr. Liu and his son.

He didn't know what the contradiction was, and he didn't want to speculate.

However, no matter what conflicts have occurred, as a son, he shouldn't leave him alone!You shouldn't treat your father like a vengeful enemy!

Regardless of this kind of person's fickleness and ignorance, he has lost a person's basic principles of being a person.Selfishness to the extreme.

"You keep squinting for a while, I guess it will take some time for Qiu Yuning to deliver the dinner, and she will deliver the food tonight, and I don't know if the food she cooks can be eaten.

If you can't fall asleep, just listen to my nonsense for a while, maybe you can fall asleep. "

"Well, I'm also thinking about how Liu Jun became such a child. His mother died early, and I raised him with painstaking efforts. I put my best effort into sending him to college and a master's degree, marrying him and having children. , I even gave him my old home, and transferred it to his name, but unfortunately, he won't come to live.

I don't understand how this kid has become like this in just a few years. "

Leng Hanhui smiled and said: "The authorities are confused but the onlookers are clear, I think you seem to have entered into a misunderstanding, and have already regarded whether your son will come to see you or not as your only important matter.

In fact, you raised him, helped him enter the society, and let him integrate into social life. You have fulfilled your responsibility as a father.Are the others important?

Life is short, can you stay with him forever?Also, there are many, many tragic situations where the child wants to support but the relative is not there. "Leng Hanhui suddenly thought of his parents who died tragically, and his mood suddenly became depressed.

After a pause of 2 minutes, he continued: "I'm sure that there must be a misunderstanding between you father and son. Although I don't know what the misunderstanding is, maybe you don't know it either. If your son doesn't tell you, there are only two possibilities.

First, he believes that something has caused him enough harm to destroy the relationship between father and son.

Second, he is sure that you have done a very serious injury to someone very important to him.

Moreover, he has already affirmed this point, so he does not think it is necessary to communicate with you anymore.

That's where things get troublesome, because you really don't know what you've done or missed.

Therefore, this matter cannot be solved perfectly for the time being, it will take time, and what you lack is time.

I want to advise you, let it go, there will always be a day when the misunderstanding will be clarified, the more you insist on this kind of thing, the worse it will be.

Could it be that at this level, you still want your son to be grateful to you?Or do you still want the kind of family happiness that his baby and other old people can get? "

Leng Hanhui didn't want Mr. Liu to continue to be immersed in sad thoughts, or he wanted to figure out why his son became so heartless.As an outsider, he can't say too much about this kind of thing, and he can't force the old man not to miss his son, nor can he force Liu Jun to come and visit Liu Lao.

These things have actually gone far beyond the scope of Leng Hanhui's work.In particular, he gave Old Liu Qi Huan San in private.

This is not a question of whether the medicine is expensive, but because he cannot overcome his conscience, it is his conscience that made him violate the hospital's treatment procedures.

This is impossible.

If Leng Hanhui was asked to choose again, he would still do so.He believes that this procedure has become a form of comfort for patients and families, and compliance or non-compliance is no longer important.

It has nothing to do with work, it has nothing to do with a person's kindness.

Leng Hanhui never thought of himself as noble. His perception of money and his perception of medical skills and medicinal materials are two different things.

In his view, money is used to survive, while medicine and medical skills are used to cure diseases and save lives.The two are not the same thing.

A pure doctor or a person who is obsessed with a certain job and a person who is full of holes in his heart and eyes really have a different understanding of these things.

The master also held the same view. Under the teaching of the master, Leng Hanhui unknowingly possessed a generous mentality and a broader mind than his peers.

In fact, if Leng Hanhui really gave tens of millions of money to a stranger without blinking his eyes, maybe he really couldn't do it.

Bundles of money and a pair of medicines are really two different things.

Good people and saints are two concepts.

The master once taught Leng Hanhui that it is better to be a kind person and a real person than to be a villain and a fake hypocrite. The former can bring happiness to others, while the latter can only bring trouble to others.

The master classifies hypocrites as dummies.

Therefore, Leng Hanhui was trying his best to instill his views on Mr. Liu, so that he would forget about his bastard son.

Family affection is needless to reason.

If kinship also has to be a theory between peers or even elders and younger generations, is it still kinship?

Leng Hanhui talked so dryly that in the end, even he himself didn't know what he wanted to express.

This is a common problem of people who are not good at expressing their ideas.