My Husband Turned Me To His Maid

It was clear that he didn't want to talk about himself and it will be unfair to Probe further if he did not want to, not everyone has had it good like I have had and not everyone was comfortable with sharing their stories with strangers because they maybe sad and personal a vulnerability they will like so much to hide.

I respect peoples privacy and although I would really like to be the shoulders my man can place his burden on I won't want to rush him.

I want to learn his pace and flow with it and maybe, just maybe we will learn to flow together in the same pace.

It was not as if he was my man already though.

Lunch with Wale was the best I've ever ever ever had with any man in my whole life. it was the very best.

We talked about so much, laughed so much and may I add his set of teeth is so perfect. He did go around not talking about himself and his family but I didn't mind, he made my day so beautiful with many jokes and he was so funny, so cool, and collected and Damn I was very horny for him. He made me want him with every fibre of my being.

What made it even worse for me was that I had been celibate for months and it was telling on my mental health. I was soon becoming a s.e.x.u.a.lly frustrated woman.

Yet, I didn't try to make any move on him because I heard Nigerian men saw any Lady who initiates s.e.x as cheap and therefore not fit to be a wife, that is not a good wife material as they so put it. I still didn't know what the hell a wife material was by the way.

I also didn't make any move on him because I wanted to know him first and him asking me out for lunch meant he didn't think about s.e.x and I needed to respect that.

Unlike most women think, men do not want s.e.x always sometimes they might just want to get to know you and it's nice to respect this if you want yours respected too.

That bull crap excuse I first gave about what Nigerian men see women as when they make the first move was just me joking around. Definitely the man seated here did not have such myopic view about women. He seemed to have a lot of respect for women on the contrary. And that view is crap! Imagine that; as if we are not s.e.x.u.a.l beings too. Actually some of us women like me even need s.e.x more than men.