Good Dad System

When they walked out of the door together, the two sisters looked at each other and couldn't help but stick out their tongues to each other. They felt embarrassed about the behavior that was just caught in the eyes of Dad. After a long time of tossing, the house was still the same. ——No, it should be said that it is more messy.

"Okay, let's sit down." Pei Naochun and Wu Fangfang sat on the couch and watched the two children sit down one by one. , you can think of the appearance of a baby who used to cry and cry, and who is still waiting to be fed. It is enough to have a full sense of achievement when he can grow up healthily until now.

It's just that children are like kites in the hands of their parents. They should be carefully towed in the first half of their life. Even if there is no wind, they may even run away. I am afraid that the kite will suddenly fall down without any effort. At this height, the string that once carried the kite to fly has now become a tie, binding the kite and cannot leave. For parents, at this time, they should either hold on to the rope firmly and refuse to let go, or just leave. Be ruthless and cut the rope neatly. From now on, whether the kite can fly higher or fall to the ground is no longer something they can control.

Pei Naochun and Wu Fangfang can be regarded as open-minded parents. The husband and wife have already discussed it, and everything is based on the wishes of the children.

"Zihan, dad and mom just wanted to talk to you today, and they're about to sign up for volunteers. Do you have any inclinations toward school and majors?" Pei Naochun spoke first, looking at his daughter calmly. "My father and my mother studied medicine and law. If you are interested in our work industry, then we can give you some advice, but if there are other things, parents can only help you to inquire. Look at what these majors do.”

Pei Zihan was also sitting upright, she thought carefully and was about to answer.

"I think my sister can study finance!" Pei Ziyu raised her hand and suggested that the Pei family has gradually become democratic since the "family reforms" in those years, and parents rarely interfere in their children's lives and choices. Everyone can express their own opinions, "I watched a TV series a few days ago, and those who studied finance are very good!"

Each stage has insights at each stage. She is still in junior high school, and she has no idea about the choice of future majors, so she almost didn't talk about doing scientific research.

"Student Pei Ziyu, please don't speak any more, you don't understand anything." Wu Fangfang helped her forehead helplessly. Can you choose a major that is cool and dazzling? It's not about love and the future. "From my mother's point of view, of course, I hope you choose a major that is good for employment in the future. You can refer to the employment situation of each major."

"I've already thought about it." Pei Zihan had already thought about it in advance, "Dad, Mom, I want to learn normal school and become a teacher." This idea is not the first day, probably most people who are older sisters There are some common problems, Pei Zihan has always been a good teacher, and he is fine on weekdays, but when facing her sister, she will start lecturing at every turn. Since she was a child, she has implemented this style of managing others into her bones, and even occasionally can't help it. When teaching classmates Yin Yin, it is simply the level of a junior teacher.

"Teacher?" Pei Naochun couldn't help laughing, and glanced at his wife, the doctor, lawyer, teacher, their career choices are really standardized, "If you think about it, of course Dad supports you, ours Anything will be fine, baby."

Wu Fangfang was beside her and nodded as well, but she felt her conscience. This is also because she personally thinks teachers are easy to find employment. If her daughter chooses something she has never heard of, she will definitely object: "Zihan, then Which school are you going to go to? If you are studying in a normal school, you can find one in the province. The normal university in our provincial capital is very good, but if you stay at home, you will lose some experience." She said it to her daughter. As a backing, but there is anticipation in his eyes, watching his daughter unwaveringly.

"I'll report it first, I've read it, and my first choice is to apply to the Normal University in our provincial capital..." As soon as Pei Zihan finished speaking, he saw his sister and his parents smiling happily. She also couldn't bear her parents. The school is the first choice again, and the two factors play a role in it. Her choice is not surprising. She can still remember the words in the diary just now. She should not have thought of it when she was a child, right? At that time, he kept saying, and even wrote in his diary that he would wait for his wings to harden and fly away, but he actually chose to stay.

Fate is really amazing.

...

People sometimes feel that time flies quickly when looking back. Pei Zihan, who is already an English teacher in the junior middle school of L City No. 3 Middle School, still feels a little dazed, as if in the blink of an eye, the years passed silently. In the past, not long after she joined the job, she waited for her sister's college entrance examination. Pei Ziyu's college entrance examination results were better than everyone imagined.

"Sister, do you know how much I took in the test!" Pei Ziyu took out her mobile phone without saying a word, and called her sister, Pei Zihan. Now teaching the junior high school, I have to watch the students study on their own at noon. If they don't come back, they can't stay in front of the phone and check their grades together.

On the phone, Pei Zihan's voice was laughing. Based on her familiarity with her sister, she had already guessed that Pei Ziyu's grades would be good: "It goes without saying that our Ziyu must have done well in the exam."

Pei Ziyu immediately cleared her throat: "Sister, do you know who is talking to you now?"

"Who is it? Isn't it my baby sister?"

Pei Ziyu wanted to pretend to be serious, but she couldn't help laughing out loud: "Sister, I'm talking to you, but Pei Ziyu, the top student in the science college entrance examination in L City, was just released this year! You're not happy!" She was in a good mood. Running laps in the room with her mobile phone, she used to watch interviews with the top scorer in the college entrance examination. When she received the information, she was calm and did not change, but how could she be so happy?

"Really? It's great!" Pei Zihan turned his back to the classroom in the corridor, his face full of smiles, "When my sister goes back in the evening, I will give you a good celebration, tell me, what do you want to eat today, my sister will treat you. "She was especially proud of her sister, and the corners of her mouth could not be pressed down.

Pei Ziyu boldly started to order: "I will definitely eat the full meal of Han Han, Grandpa Ken's family bucket, Bishengzhu pizza... Anyway, sister, buy it for me, I will eat it for three days and three nights without rest!"

Pei Naochun, who was at the back, had noticed the arrogant little daughter here, and he came over and snatched the phone: "Zihan, don't worry about this silly child, she's so happy, go home at night for parents to treat you, you Work hard at work first, let's not interfere with work." Pei Ziyu's various complaints could be heard faintly next to him, trying to get the phone back from his father, but to no avail.

Pei Zihan, who hung up the phone, was in a trance for a moment, as if he hadn't thought about his childhood for a long time, but at this moment, he couldn't help but have too many memories.

She still remembered that she had always been "competitive" in the past, and was very dissatisfied with all kinds of unfairness, and even secretly broke up with her sister.

What was she thinking then?

She told herself that she must be better and more perfect than her sister-she must always take 100% in the exam, and always be the most sensible child, so that parents will have no excuse to criticize her, and will gradually find out She is the one who deserves the most pain. When I think about it now, of course, I feel childish and naive, but at that time it was really sincere.

In fact, she had already realized the IQ gap between herself and Ziyu a long time ago. There is still some talent in reading this kind of thing. Although she is very hardworking and careful, her grades have not been bad, but she can't do it. At the top-notch level, as soon as Ziyu entered the school, he participated in various Olympiads and competitions, and he did not need to study hard, and he could achieve good results casually. He was probably the legendary true talent player.

Although at that time, my parents had changed, and they would no longer say anything to her, "You have to be an example to your sister", "Look at you, your sister can't compare", but I was still a little lost, and I always felt that I was stupid. Huh, nothing.

This was the first time my father discovered this, and Pei Zihan still remembered that that evening, after my father got off work, he pulled her and said that she was going to the supermarket, and then walked around the downstairs of the community. , Dad asked her softly: "Zihan, can you tell Dad? Why are you in a bad mood recently? Did something happen?"

After hesitating for a long time, she revealed her heart in her father's calm eyes like the sea, and was prepared to be scolded by her father, after all, what is it like to be jealous of her sister: "Dad, I just think that I am very stupid. , you always told me that a sister should be a role model, and I always felt that I could be very good, but I found that I seem to be... far from Zihan, she doesn't need to study hard, she can easily take the exam Full marks, even those Olympiad questions she knows, I read the answers and can't explain it at all, I know I shouldn't compare with my sister, but sometimes I really can't help it."

Pei Zihan is very honest and sad. When he is young, it is difficult for people to accept the "despicable" in their hearts. Jealousy is easy to breed, it just depends on how to solve it.

"It's normal." Pei Naochun's voice was calm and not angry, "Actually, being a role model is not just about grades. In fact, Dad always thinks that your correct learning attitude is worth your sister's learning. As for comparison , that's more normal, you see, your mother is a lawyer, and she can easily persuade others when she is outside. Dad is a doctor. When it comes to diagnosing and seeing a doctor, he is well-informed. Everyone's strengths are different, Zihan, you also have your strengths. ."

He chose to look down on his daughter: "Some people are good-looking, some are ugly; some have good grades, some have poor grades; some are rich and some are poor, because many emotions generated by this are normal, just like father, even sometimes, he will envy you. You are so young and carefree, you don't have to bear the pressure of work, you can get angry at any time when you are unhappy, but Zihan, you also have your good points. Dad can count them as you like. Your temper is very gentle, and you are a good sister. Very responsible..." He said a lot, no one is useless, but lacks a pair of eyes to discover the advantages, the most regrettable thing is that some people can see the advantages of others but never see their own .

"Is that so?" Pei Zihan muttered to herself. In fact, the education she has always received is that good grades are equivalent to being sensible. Most of the time, grades should be the first.

"Of course, and no matter what you are, you are your parents' precious daughter." Pei Naochun smiled and looked at her daughter, "It's like you don't love me because your father can't clean up better than your mother? Certainly not. Yes, as long as you are honest people, it doesn't matter."

"Okay." Pei Zihan said hello that day. Later, for a long time, she tried to adjust herself and learned to quickly calm down after comparing and jealous. There is a gap in her grades. As long as this is the result of her correct attitude and hard work, she will have a clear conscience. My sister will not look down on her because she did not do well in the test, but will always take the initiative to cling to her for compliments. Mom and Dad are always like that, treating her like a baby.

Gradually, everything returned to normal and became normal.

Pei Zihan was about to go back to the classroom, still with a gentle smile, and even now, she still admitted that her sister was able to take the top college entrance examination, go to the best school, and choose a major. She envied her from the bottom of her heart— Who hasn't had the dream of being a champion? But soon, this envy turned into joy and blessing.

She is happy and proud.

It's time for their little idiot to grow up and go out and fly.

Pei Ziyu was already lying on the sofa at home, she was good in everything, but she was a little shy. Seeing her parents answering the phone there, she felt that her smile was overflowing, that is, this moment, Only then did I have the time to reply to various messages. First, I temporarily wrote a few messages of thanks and sent them to Teacher Keren, and then happily started chatting wildly with a few friends.

She is just very happy, and she doesn't need to hide it at all. Who is not happy when she won the top spot in the college entrance examination?

In the family group, flowers have also exploded. Not long after the results were checked, Wu Fangfang sent her daughter's results to the circle of friends and the group. There were all kinds of old and scumbag blessings and celebration expressions everywhere. The firecracker animations that I know where the cutout came from are flashing around, creating a lively scene.

Not long after Pei Ziyu was happy, her expression immediately became a little stinky. She who was lying down just now sat up straight, her eyes locked tightly on the phone screen.

This group is a large group of 500 people. The name is called the Pei clan. The specific Pei Ziyu does not understand. Generally speaking, everyone in the group has the surname Pei. Except for a few relatives who are more closely related, the others cannot be beaten.

One of them, Pei Ziyu only remembers her uncle who is not familiar with her, and is bragging that she has inherited the good genes of the Pei family, and at the same time, she does not forget to sigh, "I remember Ziyu's sister, she was a little bad in the test. If the child spends a lot of time studying, maybe these two sisters can be the champion."

What's even more incredible is that the lower part still speaks: "Yeah, it is said that the upper branch does not grow well, and the lower branch is bad. This sister did not take the lead, but fortunately this Ziyu was not affected by it."

"Didn't you say it all? Youth is better than blue. The back waves of the Yangtze River push the front waves, and the front waves die on the beach. It is normal that one generation is stronger than the next, and the younger sister is stronger than the elder sister."

"In the future, Ziyu will develop well, and in ten years, she will be a big figure in the Pei family! Nao Chun has to accompany her children to choose a major, but she doesn't dare to come back to be an ordinary teacher like her sister."

"@Penaochun, is Ziyu free recently? I'll let our Xiaohao go to learn from the scriptures and learn from excellent people."

...

Pei Ziyu was really angry, she felt inexplicable, these people know how good her sister is? Just because of a top student in the college entrance examination, so many inexplicable people were suddenly born, picking on her sister.

And you said that you want to come and learn from her? Hehe, come on, she never studies seriously, it all depends on her brain, it's best to follow along, then it's up to you how much you can take the test.

From childhood to adulthood, Pei Ziyu wondered why so many people talked a lot. When she was a child, many people asked her, do you think father and mother like your sister or you more? She is a little older, and she is often grabbed and said, you have to learn more from your sister, and look at how much your parents love her. When my sister finished her college entrance examination, someone still pressed her voice and told her that your sister did not pass the exam this time, and she must have a bad attitude in studying, so you must not learn from her.

Pei Ziyu, who grew up in the love of her parents and sister, is confident and generous, and she is extremely arrogant. When she sees people, she wants to fight, but she can't figure it out. These relatives, friends, or people who can't be beaten, can't be seen. How is she and her sister? How sad would my sister be if she heard these words?

She has eyes of her own. Her sister grew up with her, how much she let her, how much she helped her, others don't know, she knows, not to mention anything else, she is a little ashamed when she recalls her self-willedness when she was a child.

She has beaten her sister, frightened her, robbed her, and tore up her workbook... She has done all kinds of bad things, but she has been forgiven again and again, she clearly has a world The first best sister, but it seems that everyone except parents, grandparents, can't wait for the two of them to compete and compete.

What's even more funny is that if my sister doesn't perform well, it means that she didn't set a good example and drags her down as a sister. She does something disobedient, such as being criticized for not paying attention to class, and her sister is to blame. on the head. If the elder sister behaves well, it is not enough. What is the use of her own excellence, she has to drive her younger sister to behave well.

Why is this?

Pei Ziyu got angrier the more she thought about it, and replied directly to the message: "Third uncle, fourth uncle, I will continue to work hard, but it's a pity that I, a relative, failed to lead a good lead and do a good job, or your family's Those few will probably be admitted to the undergraduate course :), Second Aunt, I am very free here, you can ask Xiaohao to come over, but I have nothing to teach him, read more books in get out of class, play more after class, and crammed , can also pass the test.”

After replying to the message, she immediately looked at her father with a guilty conscience. Sure enough, her father's eyes had already killed her, but her father didn't criticize her, just said, "Don't talk like that next time, and pierce people's eyes more."

"As ordered." Pei Ziyu smiled and made a salute gesture, and winked mischievously with her father, knowing that the two of them couldn't understand everything in the group.

In fact, when people live in this world, they will always encounter all kinds of comparisons, especially two people who are close to each other, just like the children of the neighbors. The two sisters are like a control group for each other. There's always something to be picked out.

For example, in the future, who will live better, who will earn more, who will marry the best... and even the next generation, even the harmonious sisters who have nothing to do at all will probably be told that something goes wrong.

But as long as they both love each other from the bottom of their hearts and encourage each other, many things can be solved easily - let them compare with others. In their hearts, they will always be proud and proud of each other, this is enough.

...

Growing up, starting a family, and starting a business, the man who used to be the head of the family will gradually bend over and become old, with wrinkles on his forehead, and a mother who is always busy with other things. A young child will gradually become an adult of another small family. Time is always like this, slipping through the fingers little by little.

Pei Naochun was lying on the bed and looked at his two daughters warmly. No matter how many years, he looked at the children with the same soft eyes. Now he is an old man who has just passed 80. Three years ago, his wife Wu Fangfang passed away due to his old age, and he had accompanied his daughters for three years. He was finally reaching the end of his years. Now the two daughters have reached the age of becoming grandmothers. The sharp eyebrows in the eyes are now more kind. The father's eyes were full of reluctance.

Pei Ziyu read the news later. She cooperated with a friend to set up an online marketing company. It has a lot of Internet celebrity accounts. It operates very well. While under a lot of pressure, it also creates a lot of wealth; and Pei Zihan She was still her teacher in the middle school, and she lived her life in a slow and slow manner. Although she was not rich or noble, she also had a sense of achievement that belonged to her. Now she is a good teacher all over the world.

It's not too early for the two of them to get married, and they both looked for their respective work partners. Pei Naochun thought that the two children would become strangers after they got married, but how could they have bought the opposite house directly in the same community? They also bought the upstairs for Pei Naochun and Wu Fangfang. The family of four started to live as neighbors. Although their life experiences have changed a lot, the relationship has never changed.

Of course, in the past few decades of life, I have also encountered many "thresholds". For a second-child family like them, what they have to face is not only the education of the children when they are young, but also many conditions when they grow up.

For example, when the child was about to get married, the parents gave the support under the conditions. According to the memory of the original body, in the last life, because Pei Ziyu found the object of better conditions, the Pei family almost accompanied all the family wealth, and did not even leave it to Pei Zihan. , although the other party didn't want it.

In this life, after discussing with Wu Fangfang, Pei Naochun took out the family's savings very early and divided it into several parts. Except for the old couple's pension, the two daughters were divided equally by half, which could be saved for future savings. It can be used to invest and start a company. Pei Zihan took the money, added a deposit and paid a down payment to buy a house, and Pei Ziyu used it as the company's starting capital.

In addition to this, there are also the amount of money the child pays when the parents are ill, the companionship they give, and the pension in the future.

Pei Naochun also took the lead, negotiating with his two daughters every time, and he tried his best to share the responsibilities fairly between the two daughters.

The daughters can suggest that someone is busier, someone is richer, and adjust their responsibilities appropriately, but this should be a mutual consideration between them, not parental coercion.

Before his death, Pei Naochun even divided his property fairly. As long as his two daughters were well-off and would not fall into poverty, he could not do the thing of "robbing the rich and helping the poor". The person who wants to leave also leaves a bomb for his daughter, what is it?

"Zihan, Ziyu, father is gone, you two sisters, you should always get along well and love each other like before, you know?" Pei Naochun shook the hands of the two daughters together, he The most gratifying thing is that his fairness is a bridge for his daughters to be considerate to each other. Pei Zihan has more time, and she is more often responsible for accompanying her parents. Although Pei Ziyu is busy, she has more money and wider connections. She is also a parent. Better medical conditions were provided, and nurses were called in in a timely manner when my sister was struggling.

"Okay." Pei Zihan and Pei Ziyu had already made psychological preparations. They were also at this age, and they were a lot less optimistic about life and death. The two sisters carefully arranged their father's hair and clothes together, and the tears on their calm cheeks were still drop by drop. Downhill, at this time, the two people who were connected by blood became the most solid support for each other. After their parents left, they were the two closest people in the world. "Dad, we will be fine."

This is not just a promise to the father, but also something the sisters have been practicing from the bottom of their hearts.

The world is so big, it is really a very difficult fate to be a sister. You have passed through many barriers, and you are still the most special person in my life until old age.

"Seeing that your two sisters are doing well, I have no regrets about my father's death." Pei Naochun smiled happily, and after a while, his eyes closed little by little, and he re-entered the boundless silence.

[The nineteenth assessment is world-qualified. ]