Good Dad System

L City No. 2 Experimental Primary School is located next to the old city government. Most of the surrounding roads were built decades ago. Rao has undergone many rectifications. Compared with the newly developed new district, it is more "old" here. , However, the greening is well maintained. With the slow-paced life, people come and go, and it always seems peaceful and tranquil, and it is also the most lively place in the local area.

However, the road planned in the early years was somewhat narrow. Every time it was time to get off work, the long road that gathered several large schools in L City could be crowded from beginning to end. The movement of the wheelbarrow is flexible, and it can be worn in the crowd. Of course, this also depends on the respective skills. If the skills are relatively poor, then be careful, for fear of accidentally scratching others. Shrink yourself a little bit so you can get through that apparently incomparable gap.

The outer wall of the second experimental primary school is painted with colorful colors, which is very childish, while the other half is surrounded by iron fences, and the bottom half is the wall. When parents arrive at the door waiting for their children, they can often tiptoe to Looking inside, I expect the children to come down neatly from the upstairs with the little train laughing and laughing.

The school is limited by the size of the school. Admissions have always been based on five to six classes. Each grade occupies one floor. The first to sixth floors are arranged with students from grades 1 to 6 in order, and the top two floors are respectively. Office and activity room, library.

Pei Zihan is only in the third grade this year, and her third grade class is located on the third floor of the teaching building. At this moment, she is looking out the window with her cheeks raised, her eyes are very confused.

The teacher on the podium, surnamed Sun, teaches Chinese, and is also the head teacher of Pei Zihan's class. She is holding the pointer on the table, pointing to the words on the blackboard, and repeatedly admonishing: "The daily essay when I go back tonight. , the title is "My __", whether it's a teacher, a friend, a relative, a pet...anything is fine, as usual, at least half a page, and it will be handed in for inspection tomorrow." Although it has been repeatedly made, but still can't believe the child's head, After class, Mr. Sun has to send the homework to the home-school contact group once, otherwise there will often be things that the child really forgets or pretends to forget.

"Does everyone know?"

"Understood!" Children of this age are very active, and everyone answered the teacher together, and the ending was long.

"Zihan, what are you going to write?" Wu Genglin is a feisty boy, his **** grape-like eyes sparkled with curiosity, a curious person like him can't wait to ask everyone around him, "I I plan to write about my brother, my brother is so cute! What about you? I remember you have a little sister, do you want to write about your sister?" He was very enthusiastic and helped with suggestions.

Pei Zihan was in a daze, and immediately glared at Wu Genglin: "Whatever you are! Write it yourself if you want, don't worry about what I do!" She lowered her head slightly when her mood became very bad.

"Fierce Baba." Wu Genglin immediately made a face and went back, he was very dissatisfied, "I'll give you advice with good intentions, if you don't listen, it's fine, you're still mad at me! It's so good to write about your sister, I think of my brother, I feel that I I can write a page and a half!" His younger brother was only four or five months old, and it was a fun age. Every day when he came home, he happily crawled to the head of his younger brother's crib. Looking at him like this, he would hold Wu Genglin's outstretched fingers tightly with his small hands, not to mention how cute, if it wasn't for his mother's objection, he would have wanted to hold his brother in his arms.

Pei Zihan didn't say a word, but immediately lay down on the table without even looking at Wu Genglin.

Wu Genglin didn't care, he immediately turned to the back and started chattering. He was famous in the class as a good talker. The chat partner really caused the teacher a headache.

Even though Pei Zihan was already lying down, he could still hear the shrill voices. Wu Genglin was promoting the genius-like ideas he had come up with with several students around him. He suggested that everyone write about the brothers and sisters at home together. After all After the promotion of the second child, most of the people who gave birth will give birth to the second child under the advice of their family members. The brothers and sisters are basically most of the people in the class.

She couldn't help biting her lip, feeling very aggrieved. For others, the younger brothers and sisters in the family are treasures - especially Wu Genglin, who almost blows her younger brother into the sky on weekdays, but why is she actually a little annoying own little sister.

Although my sister is very cute and she used to like it very much, but at the same time, this somewhat disgusting and angry mood is never fake.

...

Pei Naochun, who closed his eyes again, was sent to the dark space on time by the system. He had a hunch that this good father assessment seemed to have gradually come to an end. A lot of insights and changes, like a new life, the whole person's thinking has improved.

When he opened his eyes, what appeared in front of him was the soul of an ordinary middle-aged man. He wore thin-rimmed golden glasses and looked suave, but the frustration between his eyebrows could not be mistaken. He was standing slumped and looking at Pei Nao Chun's eyes were like seeing a savior, and he opened the chat box: "Are you the one who helped complete the task?"

"Yes." Pei Naochun nodded immediately, he looked at the soul calmly, and was ready to listen to the story from the other side, and soon, he learned the whole picture of the story——

The world that Pei Naochun will enter this time is based on a documentary. The name is "The Era of Second Children". It tells about the relaxation of the family planning policy and the opening of the second child, with the "Pei Family" as the focus, to expand Openly tells the story of ups and downs that happened to this family. This book, because it is in line with current events, has been adapted many times since it was released.

The protagonist of the original novel is this family member of the Pei family.

The heroine Wu Fangfang, a lawyer in a well-known law firm, has an enviable family. Her husband, Pei Naochun, and she are a campus couple who have gone from school to society. I got a job in a well-known local hospital, and the two, who are also highly educated, respect each other like guests. Although they get together less often, they never do anything nonsense outside. After the fifth year of marriage, the two gave birth to each other. After having the eldest daughter Pei Zihan, after another two years, the country officially opened the second child.

Wu Fangfang couldn't stand the persuasion of the people around - "You are just right now, if you don't give birth now, it will be too late in the future!", "Tell me, how hard the generation of the only child is, your children will have to bear the burden in the future. How many families, have one more, so that you can support and bear each other!", "To have a second child, the age of the two children must be close, so that both children can have a good time. Besides, it also saves work intermittently. It's great to ask for the leave in one breath!"  …

In short, people who persuade people always have reasons. Wu Fangfang was persuaded in the end. The most persuasive thing for her was that having another child would bring her daughter Pei Zihan a blood-related companion, in case the two husband and wife were gone in the future , This sibling or two sisters can also accompany each other and move forward hand in hand. After the couple discussed it, they immediately started to prepare for pregnancy. Two years after the second child was opened, Pei Ziyu, who was four and a half years away from Pei Zihan, cried. , came to the world.

The husband and wife did not have the habit of favoring sons over daughters. They had communicated with each other for a long time. Both boys and girls were the same. They didn't feel disappointed when they saw Pei Ziyu, but they thought the child Yuxue was cute, as if they could see Pei Zihan from her. The way he was born.

But the original intention was good, but the result may not be good. The birth of Pei Ziyu did bring a period of chaos to the family.

The conditions of the husband and wife are good. The confinement sister-in-law and the nanny should be invited. But these days, it is very difficult to choose a nanny who suits your heart. Children, but I have no ability. In the end, I have no choice but to send Pei Zihan, who is a little older, who is already in kindergarten, to Grandpa Pei and Grandma Pei in the same city.

It was not until Pei Ziyu was weaned that the couple relaxed a little, and finally they were able to take their eldest daughter Pei Zihan back, but none of them noticed that Pei Zihan, who used to lean on her mother's stomach and look forward to the appearance of her younger siblings in the future. This little sister has some thoughts of rejection.

This has to start from when Pei Ziyu was not born-

There is a not-so-good custom in China, that is, "joking with children". The content of jokes is very rich, ranging from "You picked it up from the trash.", "Who do you prefer, your father or your mother?" to "You Do you know? Your parents have promised us to send you to our house to be a child." There are all kinds of things, and for these second-child families, the most common question is "After your younger brother and sister are born, what will your parents do? What if it doesn't hurt you?".

The person who asked the question didn't have any great malice, but just had a joking heart and thought it was a joke, but the person who heard this might remember these words for a lifetime.

Pei Zihan has been an open-minded and cheerful personality since he was a child. At the beginning, every time he heard it, he would choke back like a calf with his arms on his waist: "No way! Mom and Dad will always love me! I will love my younger brother and sister too." In the end, she was asked too many questions, and she couldn't help but put a question mark in her heart, but as long as she thought of the little brother or sister who would appear in the future, she could forget everything, and even secretly studied it in the toy box After a long time, I decided to give half of my favorite toy to my future brother or sister.

But she greeted her mother who suddenly disappeared. Wu Fangfang went to the hospital to give birth, but naturally she would not take her daughter there. She urged her elders to take Pei Zihan away, while she went to the hospital to prepare for a caesarean section. She was almost never separated from her mother. Pei Zihan, who was in tears, cried for three or four nights. Every day, he moved a small bench to wait at the door of the house, and finally he finally met his mother and the little sister who came out of nowhere.

——The little sister is so cute. Although she cried so loudly that she wanted to cover her ears, but every time she went to sleep, she held her little fist so obediently, not to mention how good-looking, and the tumble Her small nose, eyes that open like water, and not much but very soft hair. According to the adults, this child is completely grown on Pei Zihan's cute nod, and she wants her to treat him as a treasure.

But before she could take a good look at her sister, Pei Zihan was greeted by a series of blows.

"Pei Zihan! Don't touch your sister's face, it's not good!" Seeing her approaching her sister, the always gentle father immediately grabbed her and put her aside, "She finally fell asleep, don't tease her, Wait for Mom to be tired again." Although bystanders knew that the couple got up five, six, seven or eight times a night because of their new baby, they were really exhausted and couldn't have any good temper. From Pei Zihan's point of view, it can only be turned into one sentence, that her father murdered her because of her sister.

"What are you doing!" The mother who was confinement was still covering her head and seemed to get angry. She took out the toy that Pei Zihan had just put in her sister's cradle and placed it on the ground casually, "These are not disinfected. Wait, what should you do when your sister eats her in her mouth and gets sick?" Pei Zihan was almost five years old at that time, she was quite sensible and she already had a lot of toys like small building blocks, but these are for new born children, It is simply a dangerous item. First, I am afraid that the child will eat it directly without knowing how to say it. Second, I am afraid that this toy will roll around on the ground, there will be a lot of dust and viruses, and the newborn will not be able to resist it. For comfort, I can only use a fierce expression to frighten my daughter, and I won't do this next time.

At that time, Pei Zihan was just silent, got down from the bed, and got up holding her baby toy, she lowered her head and said timidly: "Mom, this is my favorite toy, my sister will also Like..." She wants to be a good sister and shares toys with her sister.

The conversation between the mother and daughter had awakened Pei Ziyu, who had just woken up. She began to weep, and moved her hands in the cradle. Wu Fangfang had a severe headache, and immediately picked up her little daughter. She waved her hand firmly: "Your sister doesn't need it, you can play outside." She didn't see that after her daughter left the door, she secretly hid in the toy room and took the toys that were put in the small box. out, crying a lot.

... Not long after that, Pei Zihan was sent away, and her father was quite patient, hugged her, and tried to reason with her: "Look, my sister is still so young, and my mother is really tired. I have to go to work again, so I don’t have time to take care of you. Our Zihan is the best. Would you like to go to grandpa’s house for a while? I’ll take you back when my sister is more obedient, okay?”

"...Okay." Pei Zihan carried a small schoolbag, lowered his head and tightly grasped the corner of his father's clothes, "Then Dad, you have to come and pick me up and go home, please tell your sister to be obedient, and hurry up and be good, okay? ."

At that time, her childish words caused a whole room of adults to laugh loudly. They thought it was very interesting, and they agreed with a smile, but they didn't know that these words were really said by Pei Zihan with sincerity.

She waited for a long, long time—at least for a child, this time is long enough. Several times, she stepped on the small bench, reached her grandfather's mobile phone on the table, and skillfully called her father and mother: " Mom and Dad, I want to go home, has my sister become obedient?"

Of course, the replies they get are always repeating: "Zihan, my father and mother will see you in two days, and my sister will have a little more time... Okay, don't talk, your sister is crying again, you have to listen. Do you know what your grandparents said?"

"Understood..." Before she could finish speaking, there was only a beeping sound on the other end of the phone. She climbed down from the bench sadly and sat alone on the bed in the room.

Grandpa is very good, grandma is also very good, but she still misses her parents very much, obviously it was not like this before, why can't my sister become good soon?

If she were a mature adult, she might be able to find 10,000 reasons for her to understand, but as a child, she slowly formed a balance in her heart, with her sister at one end and her at the other. In mother's hands, the sister's end sank, while she was raised high.

——“What should I do if your father and mother stop loving you after your younger brother and sister are born?”

--"I have no idea."

After Pei Zihan finally returned home, she even felt that the home was a little strange. Although it was not long since the separation, it has changed a lot. The colorful soft cushions on the floor, the baby toys that can be seen everywhere, the table case The folded round jars of milk powder, these were things she had never seen before, and she was finally able to get close to her sister again, lying beside the shaker, smiling silly, thinking that her sister was still so cute.

Forget it, forgive my sister, she is still so young, she must be ignorant, she has a lot of adults, don't care about her! Pei Zihan, who thought so, became more and more sad not long after this.

"Zihan, you are not too young. You have to learn to sleep alone. Look at the kindergarten classmates, have they all started to sleep by themselves?" In the past, although Pei Zihan also had his own small room, he still used to sleep every week. There are many opportunities to stay on the bed of her parents and not leave. She finally came back from her grandparents' house and was particularly clingy.

"Then why doesn't my sister sleep by herself!"

"My sister is still young." Wu Fangfang said logically, "When you were as young as your sister, you also slept with your parents! You have to be a good example for your sister, right?" This sentence quickly convinced Pei Zihan, Although she was sad, she still hugged the pillow and chose to leave, but she didn't know it. Since then, these words have gradually become her nightmare.

Anyone who has raised children knows that when children can walk and run, they enter the age where adults are the most annoying. They have the ability to explore the world, are curious about everything, and have children born out of nowhere. Wisdom, without a teacher, can open all the cabinets carefully closed by adults, and even climbing high on the ground is no problem.

Pei Zihan never thought that her relationship with her sister would be like this more often——

She was building blocks there, busy all afternoon, and finally made the castle she wanted. She happily pointed to showing off to her sister, but the other party ran over with her calf and pushed her hard work directly to the ground. , Tears were still in her eyes. After thinking about it, she didn't get angry with her sister, so she set up again, but the result - the sister pushed down again, and was so aggrieved that she couldn't help pointing at her sister and started arguing, but the other party had a confused expression, and even She threw the building blocks everywhere, and when she got angry to the top, she couldn't help it. She and her sister finally got into a fight. The sister used both hands and mouths. She controlled her strength, but she was still extremely aggrieved. The two immediately separated and began to complain separately.

Of course, no matter what is said, the result is often the same.

"Zihan, your sister is still young and ignorant, how can you care about her?"

Of course Pei Zihan couldn't accept it at that time, she raised her hand aggrievedly, and there was an embossing from her sister's bite on it, and she almost bleed, and she burst into tears.

"My sister is really bad, but she still doesn't understand it now. In the future, don't fight with your sister. You see that she doesn't understand, and you can't hold back your strength. Is this the truth?"

... She can only accept this inexplicable "reason".

The two are at home. If she doesn't pay attention, her sister paints the wall in a mess - of course it's her fault. As a sister, how can she not be optimistic about her sister?

My sister is ignorant, so she took things and threw her away and cried—my sister made a mistake this time, but she is still young and doesn't understand anything, so please forgive her.

My sister opened the refrigerator, took out the ice cream and ate it all, and ended up in the hospital with gastroenteritis—don't ask, it must be her fault, because she didn't find out in time and didn't tell her parents.

...

It seems that no matter what, after 800 turns, it can finally reach her, and as she grows up, there is another sentence, which is also related to "she is still young" and "you are a sister, you have to let her go." "Sister" together, became her demon barrier.

"Zihan, you are your elder sister, and you should be a role model for your younger sister." After this sentence, various examples are often followed. You are not good in the test, you do not learn a specialty, you do not like to work... It seems that no matter what , as long as she doesn't do well, it will delay her sister.

Sometimes, looking at the quiet sister, Pei Zihan also thinks that the other party is cute and amiable, especially when the sister comes over to act like a spoiled child, but every time, as long as her parents come home, her heart seems to be cut in half, and she begins to want to leave. Sister stay away.

- "Zihan, look, your sister wants to play with you so much! As a sister, you must have a good relationship with your sister!"

--"okay."

She felt that it was not good at all to be a sister, and she did not want to be a good sister who was a role model, a good sister, and a good sister to her.

It has been written that when the two children grew up, Pei Ziyu was enthusiastic and cheerful, with good grades, and successfully got a good job; Pei Zihan was different from when he was a child, he became silent and taciturn. After failing the college entrance examination, he soon entered a school. Universities in the south refuse to come back after graduation.

Pei Naochun and Wu Fangfang have called several times, and even aroused the heart of looking for their daughter in the south, but the other party just made money on time and refused to return to L city to live. On the phone, she said:

"Ziyu is very good. She will take good care of you. As my useless sister, if I can make a little money, I will call home a little bit. If I go back, it will be fine. I'm not important anyway." The phone quickly hung up. It was broken, but it was not accepted again, but the two couples had heard rumors from the surrounding, Pei Zihan asked someone to help pay attention, saying that if the two couples had any physical problems, they would definitely inform her.

It's just that this home has finally fallen apart.

The soul burst into tears when he said this: "We all understood later that everything was the fault of our husband and wife. These two children could have been fine. For us, they are both treasures. Why? Who would you say is more important?" He slapped himself hard, "I always feel that the big give way to the small, but I never thought about Zihan's mood, I ask you to take good care of them. Two, let the children grow up happily and care for each other, this family, don't let it go."