Crazy Psychologist

It is a very natural phenomenon for human beings to desire to be praised. Pure praise itself can improve people's social adaptability and overall happiness, give a negative person a positive motivation, and make a depressed, silent person become cheerful and willing to communicate.

It is a simple and effective way to increase the positivity of interpersonal communication, enhance self-confidence, and promote motivation. What is even simpler is that praise makes people happy.

Generally speaking, this is the case.

If a person is happy, of course he will laugh.

Liu Yiming was lying on the sofa, listening to Chu Sisi's account of what happened in the hospital that morning. He listened with great interest and thought, "Wouldn't it be wonderful if I could have a little time every week to follow Mu Chun to see the outpatient clinic? I can have more fun with Sisi." More opportunities to work together.”

Liu Yiming looked at the roof, fantasizing endlessly: A photo of himself in white and Chu Sisi in white would definitely be perfect for a photo. If they interned together, he could give Chu Sisi more help. Although His professional level is not as good as that of Chu Sisi for the time being, but he is not slow in learning. The key is to follow Teacher Mu Chun closely. Are you afraid that you will not learn?

While he was having fun, a hard object hit Liu Yiming on the left side of his forehead. Although it didn't hurt, his fantasy was interrupted for a moment.

"What, I'm talking to you and you're in a daze?"

"I haven't said anything about Sisi yet, what did you throw over here?"

"Crispy red dates, I was going to throw them to you to eat." Chu Sisi said pretending to be angry.

"Sisi gave me red dates, is it a hint that I can propose?"

Chu Sisi: What kind of understanding ability is this?

"What are you thinking about? Where did I just say it?"

Liu Yiming walked to the window sill and sat on the window sill with his hands on it. "You said that because many people were praising Zhu Xiaoming, he laughed. I think this is very logical. If you praise me more, I will too." Always laughing. Originally, I thought that a person’s unwillingness to laugh is probably because he has had low self-esteem for too long.”

"But." Chu Sisi tilted her head, still having unanswered questions and not knowing how to explain clearly.

"Psychological treatment is so easy? Then what else do doctors need to do?"

In the bright moonlit night with few stars, Chu Sisi could see that if the starry sky were people's intricate emotions, the cold moonlight as the background of these emotions would reflect the entire night picture. When people on the ground looked up at the night, they would see what they saw. Is it the night itself?

When a person's inner psychology and outward behavior appear in the eyes of others and are processed in their minds, are they the essence of what others are thinking in their hearts?

If the answer is yes, will people not have a lot of psychological troubles, everyone will become happy, and life will be simple and fulfilling?

If the answer is no, wouldn't it mean that there is absolutely no way for people to fully understand each other's true thoughts, because actions may not represent inner emotions? If so, wouldn't the world be the same as hell? The human heart is only obscure, and the behavior is untrustworthy. The contradiction between the two is like the contradiction between the bright brilliance and the darkness and silence of the moon itself. What should we believe?

"What is Sisi worried about? Look at you, you have made a lot of efforts. You were preparing a treatment plan when we had dinner together, and you were also thinking about a treatment plan when I sent you home. From jokes to funny videos, you Memorize each one carefully and even practice it many times. These are all the efforts that Chu Sisi, a doctor, made to treat this patient. Could it be that after the achievements of such hard work appear, you will still feel unhappy? Do you still need to be sad and depressed?”

Chu Sisi lowered her eyes and thought, "Sorry, I shouldn't let you listen to what I said. They are just unreasonable worries."

"No." Liu Yiming's tone suddenly became serious, "It's not an unreasonable worry. I will soon be a graduate student majoring in psychosomatics. I can understand a little bit of your worries. I assure you, this is definitely not you. Annoyances that come out of nowhere.”

Chu Sisi's eyes felt warm. She was very familiar with the big boy in front of her. The two childhood sweethearts had always had a good relationship since childhood. Liu Yiming had never been a person who had anything to do with "troubles". In Chu Sisi In Si's mind, he is a completely clear and clear boy.

Worries cannot even enter his world.

"So, if Sisi has any questions that you don't understand, please ask me for advice."

Chu Sisi: Sure enough! How could a heartless Liu Yiming understand the complex world of the human heart?

"What did Teacher Muchun say? He must have praised Sisi."

Chu Sisi sighed and said: "It should be considered so, but you see, praise can't make me really happy, but it is very effective for Zhu Xiaoming. The teacher said that this is related to the generation of positive thoughts. When praising a person, the other person's Positive emotions are produced in the brain, and the positive emotional reactions brought about by positive emotions can be understood as the brain producing certain chemicals related to positive emotions. Over time, this positive emotion and chemicals form a positive neural network. , when this person is praised and praised, the neural network is stimulated and immediately produces happy and positive emotions, thus giving a lot of positive meaning to this person's behavior, such as the enhanced mobility, willingness to socialize, and ability to Gain more positive energy in social interactions.

On the contrary, if a person accepts negative emotions, over time, a neural network of negative emotions will be formed. When encountering certain things, the brain will react with displeasure, pain, or a sense of oppression. Neuroplasticity does not pick and choose. There is a way to give it something. It just creates the feeling according to the script. "

"So, Zhu Xiaoming may not have established this kind of neural network before. He cannot appreciate the positive aspects of life and does not have a happy channel in his mind? Today in your hospital, the positive channel in his brain was established. From now on, he will You can feel happiness and then do happy behaviors, such as smiling, laughing, and being silly, right?”

"It doesn't sound like there's anything wrong." Chu Sisi said thoughtfully.

"Now that Sisi has figured it out, what else is there to worry about? The channel in your mind is not correct?"

Liu Yiming smiled evilly, predicting that Chu Sisi was about to throw the second red date at him. As soon as Chu Sisi took the red date out of the bag, Liu Yiming immediately reached out and snatched it away.

"You!" Chu Sisi blushed.

"A cure is a cure. Dr. Mu has already said that your patient has recovered. If you continue to be so entangled, I think you can file a complaint against Dr. Chu for excessive medical treatment."

"What did you say? Did you do it on purpose?"

"Dr. Chu, please work hard in the right direction of study. Don't look for trouble. I, a new student, will soon catch up!"

"Liu Yiming, how can the mind-body department be so simple? You're still early!" Chu Sisi laughed angrily.