Crazy Psychologist

"Her game should be over. I think when she recovers, she will be even more regretful than she is now, and she will blame me more deeply. I don't want this, but I have no choice but to deny it. How to explain this matter, and thank you for listening to what I said. Regarding Xu Dan, can Dr. Mu keep it a secret?"

He Ping suddenly talked a lot and looked like he was about to leave the clinic. Muchun believed that He Ping had told him everything he knew. From He Ping's narrative, we can see that there are many contradictions with Xu Dan's accusations. .

The most obvious contradiction is that Xu Dan said that He Ping violated her, but He Ping denied it.

Secondly, Xu Dan said that he had only told He Ping about being assaulted by his uncle when he was a child, but obviously there were many comments in the message about "I am dirty and I don't deserve happiness". These words were not left by viewers who knew nothing. Down. There should be others who know that Xu Dan was violated or molested when he was a child.

And among those who left messages, there were many who thought of themselves because of Xu Dan's incident. For example, someone said, "I have thought about dying countless times, but I can't do it. I can't imagine my parents watching me die." How sad it would be, and I can’t imagine how sad it would be for my grandma, the grandma who loves me the most in the world, to see me die when a white-haired person sends a black-haired person to her. I want to wait until the day when they are no longer here, and I won’t be able to do it either. I will continue to survive in this dirty world. 】

Such messages seem to come from the heart, with strong true feelings and strict logic. It can be inferred that some people should understand the misfortunes that have happened to Xu Dan.

If there is only one such message, then it may be a coincidence. The person who left the message thought of his own past experience to persuade Xu Dan to stop committing suicide. However, in fact, there is far more than one such message.

"Okay, doctor, I'm leaving first." He Ping stood up and prepared to leave.

Perhaps because of fatigue, He Ping couldn't stand firm and suddenly leaned on the table feeling dizzy.

"Are you okay? Did you not sleep well or is it for some other reason?" Muchun asked carefully.

He Ping smiled and waved his hand, "It's okay. I'm too tired. I have to catch up with the show. How can I put it? It's too late for me to become famous. If I had worked harder when I was a teenager, I wouldn't have to work so hard now. The band is a very comfortable one." Wherever I go, I can just follow the performances, but I have to accept more performances outside of the orchestra, just to make up for the time I wasted in the past.”

"You should also spend more time with Bai Lu. The relationship between two people still needs to be communicated." Mu Chun made some suggestions.

He Ping forced a smile and said, "I think so too. I also know that Bai Lu will make the doctor laugh if she stops talking."

"If things don't change suddenly, now that you've returned to Yaohai, the police station will probably come looking for you. How are you going to explain?" Mu Chun asked.

He Ping sat back in his seat and shook his head, "I don't know either. Besides denying everything, what else can I say?"

"This matter is not so easy to deny, because Xu Dan actually deliberately wanted to make the matter bigger. Can you analyze the reason?" Muchun asked again.

He Ping suddenly laughed heartily and coughed several times in succession, "I don't know, I don't know. It's really hard to guess a girl's mind. She told you today how miserable her past was, and tomorrow Just accuse you of violating her. She was still talking about music with you yesterday and will commit suicide tomorrow. She also said that she committed suicide because of you. It is more difficult for a girl to think about music than to study music. I am really, why should I go to her? I really regret it, how much time I wasted."

"Go find a lawyer. If what you tell is the truth, the lawyer will help you." Mu Chun suggested.

He Ping said to Muchun hesitantly, "I just thought I could tell you, and I don't know why I trust you so much. But I don't know if I will find a lawyer. I just hope Xu Dan can figure it out. It's not easy for me to figure it out just like her." , and then let me go."

After saying that, He Ping stood up again and left the clinic.

He Ping walked back to the ward, looked at his sleeping wife Bai Lu, kissed Bai Lu's forehead tenderly and gently, and gently tidied the broken hair around her ears. Bai Lu looked as beautiful as when he first met her.

If life is just like the first time we met, why should the autumn wind draw a fan sadly?

It is easy to change people's hearts, but they say that people's hearts are easy to change.

Although our hearts may not have changed, and neither of us really wants to abandon the other, this may not guarantee eternal love and staying together.

He Ping suddenly burst into tears, and the tears fell on Bai Lu's cheeks and slowly fell on the pillow.

It doesn't matter whether your heart changes or whether your feelings have changed, not even in He Ping's opinion.

Soon, everything will become meaningless.

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Zhang Wenwen patted Muchun on the shoulder and comforted him: "Don't worry, the law will not wrong a good person, nor tolerate a bad person. You are just a doctor, don't be so sad."

After Zhang Wenwen finished speaking, he handed Mu Chun a printed document.

Mu Chun first expressed his gratitude to Zhang Wenwen. Zhang Wenwen did not need to stay in the hospital on Saturday afternoon. The outpatient service ended in the morning. Because of Bai Lu's incident, Zhang Wenwen took the initiative to tell Mu Chun, "Use my outpatient room here." Well, I’ll go sit in the employee cafe for a while and read some materials.”

Now it's time to get off work again, and Zhang Wenwen obviously has no intention of getting off work.

Seeing that Muchun remained silent, Zhang Wenwen patted Muchun on the shoulder again, "Hey, don't be so worried. It's not like you. What kind of patient has troubled us, Doctor Mu Chun?"

When Zhang Wenwen said this, Muchun could no longer ignore him, so he could only tell the truth, "It's not difficult to have no patient. Why do I feel that it's not easy for every patient?"

"That's because you are too serious. Speaking of which, Senior Sister Xiao is as serious as you in doing things. I am also impressed by the two of you. I can't imagine that you were lovers in school days. Do you just discuss patients when we are together? ? Isn’t it true that there are many people and many strange patients in your relationship every day? "

Zhang Wenwen smiled playfully, pretending to be relaxed and teasing.

Muchun turned his face and glanced at Zhang Wenwen, "What else? Patients, no matter how small the disease is in the doctor's eyes, it affects the patient's entire life. To them, it is everything."

"Is this an exaggeration? It's much more difficult for patients than for doctors." Zhang Wenwen sighed.

"No, it's difficult. Being a human being is never easy." After Mu Chun finished speaking, he opened the information Zhang Wenwen handed him.

After reading the five pages printed out on A4, Muchun's face looked like a crude model that had just been built, without any human atmosphere at all.

"Don't look at me like this. Isn't this something we all feel personally? Now it's just a statistical report. It's not so unacceptable. It's not like this here. The whole world has already entered a high rate of suicide. It's time, this is a common problem faced by mankind." Zhang Wenwen tried to make Muchun relax.

Muchun also wanted Zhang Wenwen to relax, so he nodded, stood up and asked Zhang Wenwen for a cup of coffee.

During the two minutes of silence, the two doctors said nothing, each looking at the cup in their hands and the dark brown liquid in the cup.

What Mu Chun was holding was the "Global Report on Suicide Prevention" issued by the World Health Organization that Zhang Wenwen printed for him.

The first line of the report contains a few shocking and powerless words - suicide: one person dies every 40 seconds.

This line of words silenced two doctors, silenced thousands of families around the world, and caused millions of children to die early.

Zhang Wenwen said: "Paying attention to and preventing suicide is almost the top priority of mental health work around the world. I believe that more people will present data and difficulties in this regard at the Annual Mental Health Conference after this year. It’s not just the psychosomatic department that encounters these problems, in fact any department may encounter such patients.”

“It’s not just hospitals that may encounter people at risk of self-harm. We may encounter such people in schools, businesses, communities, and families. When you and we take a subway, there may be one person in a car. I'm planning to commit suicide," Muchun said seriously.

"Yes, nearly 230,000 people currently die by suicide in our country every year. In addition, the number of suicide attempts is many times the number of suicide deaths. In the general population, suicide attempts are the largest risk factor for suicide. Moreover, suicide has become 15-29 The second leading cause of death in the age group. When I participated in volunteer work in Detroit, I once saw that their hospital system conducts risk assessments on almost every patient in order to prevent suicide, but the effect is still not obvious." Zhang Wenwen said these I couldn't help but feel a little nervous.

His hands were shaking slightly and cold sweat broke out on his palms.

"Well, in fact, our overall suicide rate has decreased in recent years. I have also been paying attention to relevant data reports from the World Health Organization. In recent years, the problem of teenagers has become more obvious. According to the suicide rate faced by teenagers, In terms of risk ranking, study pressure still ranks first, accounting for nearly 50%. There is not much difference whether in urban or rural areas. In addition, parental divorce and early love are also important factors." Mu Chun said.

"Speaking of this, I remembered. The most terrifying thing in recent years is that the age of suicide is getting younger. Think about Ding Xiaoyun. She is only in fifth grade. Is she under huge pressure to be promoted to junior high school? Oh my god." Zhang Wenwen almost jumped. He got up, but he sat in a chair, trying to look calmer.

There is no way to calm down about such a topic.

"So, do you have any ideas?" Zhang Wenwen asked Muchun.

"Well, we are almost ready. I will submit the complete report at the Mental Health Annual Conference." Muchun said calmly and calmly.

"Are you ready, kid? You see, I'm still extremely nervous, for fear that no one will do this." Zhang Wenwen's nervousness finally relaxed a little.

Muchun took a sip of coffee but his expression was still very serious, "This is also what happened recently and urged me to do these things. We live in this era and we should be brave enough to do something when we have to do something. Bar.

Especially this time Xu Dan gave Qiu Ping a room number, which made me think of some more effective methods. Outside of the medical system, there are actually many people who can participate in suicide assistance. We need to establish more effective methods. The comprehensive mutual aid model is not limited to the 7x24-hour telephone hotline that may be busy. It also requires registration and all medical visits will be recorded. We need to have ideas that keep pace with the times.

For example, the assistance system on the Internet, or the assistance system in mobile phones, or the help modules embedded in social apps such as Alipay, WeChat, QQ, etc. that are highly relevant to everyone~~~~~~~

For the time being, some things are just preliminary ideas, some plans are based on the existing intervention methods of our medical system and the police, and some are more complicated.

But in principle, there are only two points: First, suicide intervention must ensure that the suicidal person can find a help channel as soon as possible, a person, an online answer, and a voice.

Second, treating the disease before it occurs is the top priority in the long term, and improving overall health is the fundamental way to avoid frequent crises. This matter involves a wider area and takes longer. Improving public awareness is part of it. Improving daily assessment is part of it. Paying attention to the timely assessment of risk groups is also part of it. As long as we continue to think about it, there are many, many more. Endless things to do. "

Muchun took out a pen from his pocket and wrote one after another in the blank space, then stood up and handed it to Zhang Wenwen's hand.

"That's pretty much it. Although there is no clear quantitative data on the effectiveness of crisis intervention, everyone's crisis is time-sensitive. If the period of chaos and imbalance is over, and people's self-help ability is activated again, it may be possible to overcome it. After the crisis, I regained the power of life.

The reason why people are human is that they always have to take care of each other. "

After Muchun finished speaking, he stood up and was about to leave, but Zhang Wenwen pulled him back and said, "How did you come up with such a detailed idea? How did you develop your brain?"

"Me? I don't know. Some things are still affected by Xu Dan. The room number she sent to Qiu Ping is a way of asking for help, although her original intention is not to ask for help. Okay, I'll leave first. I'm hungry." After saying that, Muchun drank all the coffee in the cup and threw it into the dry trash can. Just as he was about to leave the clinic, he was pulled back by Zhang Wenwen.

"Let's have dinner together later. I'll invite you. I know all your money is in the charity fund." Zhang Wenwen patted his chest and said with a smile.

"No, I still have something to think about, maybe next time." Muchun replied.

"Is it okay that your patient is here? Are you just going to leave?" Zhang Wenwen said as he changed into his coat.

"Well, let's go. I've just said what I can say. What I can't say, I can only wait." Mu Chun replied.

"Then let's talk as we walk. I have another case to ask you for advice. I have a patient here who comes to see me for neurological headaches. Every time he has a headache, he says he sees three of himself."

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Li Xiaoyun, who has been busy from New Year's Day to the Saturday of the second week, finally found time to lie comfortably on the sofa and watch TV for a while. She also likes the "Weird Showdown", which is famous in the group recently.

Finally having a long break, Xie Xiaofei and his father Xie Chunping went to the amusement park for a day. Li Xiaoyun finally had time to apply a facial mask and rest comfortably alone.

Good days like this are really rare. It would be great if it could always be like this, as if I was back when I was single.

Li Xiaoyun, looking at the guests in [The Bizarre Duel], each one is smarter than the last, especially when he sees Li Mu being calm and composed during the verbal battles, and always able to turn the tide with his witty remarks, I really like and envy him in my heart, so I looked up Li Mu online. His background turned out to be that he had been a top student since he was a child, and he felt an inexplicable feeling in his heart.

Anyway, he is someone else’s son.

Then I thought of my son Xie Xiaofei again. Speaking of which, he really got into trouble this week. He yelled weirdly in class and even wrote half a line of Chinese text silently in 20 minutes. He was completely regarded by the teacher as Bad birth.

What the class teacher said is also true. It doesn’t matter if he is a slow learner, and it doesn’t matter if he doesn’t understand. They can all be taught. However, Xie Xiaofei’s situation is not just that he is a slow learner, nor is he unwilling to learn. What the teacher is worried about now is whether the child’s behavior is bad. There are serious problems. Li Xiaoyun even heard that there was something going on between the parents that affected the child's mood.

This situation is also common nowadays. Li Xiaoyun also knew that the girl from the Far North Affiliated Elementary School had a weird personality because of a bad relationship between her parents. As a result, she jumped off the building due to too much pressure. But the relationship between her and Xie Chunping is pretty good, so it can't be related to their emotional discord.

Li Xiaoyun shook his head, watching TV and scrolling through his phone with the mask on. Staying in an air-conditioned room with hot wind all day in January, Li Xiaoyun felt that his skin was almost dehydrated.

After browsing Weibo and scrolling through Moments, a message in Moments suddenly caught Li Xiaoyun’s attention.

The person who posted this in Moments is a friend of Li Xiaoyun, a guzheng teacher who specializes in purchasing from Korea. He definitely looks like an Internet celebrity, but unfortunately he is keen on being a teacher.

It seems that I don't have time to go shopping around Jeju Island recently. Li Xiaoyun originally wanted to introduce two customers to her, but found out that this girl hadn't flown in a month.

Li Xiaoyun sighed and thought to himself, it is really not easy to purchase on behalf of others these days. The customs inspections are getting tighter and tighter, especially for flights from places like Jeju Island or Thailand, which are popular places for purchasing agents, especially at the airport. Pay attention to flights. If a girl drags a small suitcase out of the airport, there will be no problem. If she checks a large suitcase, she will most likely have to ask you to go to the side and cooperate with the inspection.

If the purchased goods such as cosmetics violate the regulations, then taxes and fees must be paid. What is the concept of making up taxes and fees? In addition to the money spent on the round-trip air tickets, this purchase was basically a total loss.