Crazy Psychologist

Mu Chun understood what Liu Yiming meant. If it was reported on the news, then those reporters and self-media people who wanted to dig out more surrounding news would not easily let go of such a hot incident. It is estimated that this matter was reported by the police. The case is easily closed, but the impact on society and on citizens may be just beginning.

Liu Yiming looked at his watch and asked: "Teacher Muchun, can I start? I really want to know how you persuaded Sun Xiangyun to come to the police station to report the case? Because before that, I went to Mr. Sun Xiangyun's house, and the result was He just got the photo. He just ran away from the matter of Lao Wu and the nanny when he could. He didn't want to mention it at all. He took me in circles and wouldn't talk about it. If his wife, Ms. Amin, hadn't strongly asked him to ask for it. The computer's power-on password, maybe Sun Xiangyun didn't even plan to give me the photo.

But on Friday, he came to report the crime himself. I knew that he went to Huayuanqiao Hospital before he came to report the crime.

Moreover, Sun Xiangyun's appearance at the police station was completely different from that at home. When he was at home, he was confused, hemming and hawing, and he was just thinking about things. But at the police station on Friday, he was thinking Quick, straight to the point, almost no nonsense.

How could such a big change happen suddenly? Mr. Sun said that he saw a doctor before coming to the police station. The doctor helped him understand the whole thing. I was very curious, how did the teacher do it? To me, Mr. Sun's transformation is really incredible.

To be honest, Teacher Muchun, I really hope to learn part of it. I really hope to know what I can do to establish an effective relationship with a person when he holds important evidence but keeps silent. communicate. "

In Mu Chun's opinion, Liu Yiming was a little too modest. He had already done a good job. That day, Mu Chun just pretended to say, "Why didn't Sun Xiangyun come to register?" Liu Yiming went to Sun Xiangyun's house to investigate. This matter was enough It proves that Liu Yiming is not only smart, but also very serious about his work.

Muchun poured a glass of water and slowly explained to Liu Yiming Sun Xiangyun's troubles and why he was unwilling to answer Liu Yiming's questions. "These matters actually involve some of the patient's privacy, but as I am assisting the police in their investigation, I have confidentiality exceptions."

"Well, you can rest assured about the confidentiality issue on my side, but I don't know about the reporter's side." Liu Yiming shrugged, expressing his helplessness.

Muchun nodded considerately.

"Sun Xiangyun's trouble is that he and Lao Wu have been close friends for many years. He is familiar with Lao Wu's son and understands the development of Lao Wu's illness. Moreover, he had some worries and troubles before Lao Wu's death. It was precisely because of these troubles that he came to the garden. Bridge Hospital became my patient.

Sun Xiangyun initially just said that he couldn't sleep well, but now he is very sure that his poor sleep was related to his previous visit to Lao Wu.

After learning that Lao Wu might have been poisoned to death by his nanny, Sun Xiangyun faced a very complicated problem. This problem may be simpler for people with less ideas, but Sun Xiangyun is not. He is not the kind of person with simple ideas. On the contrary, He has a delicate mind, and when he saw the photo, he quickly realized that the matter was very terrible, beyond the horror he could accept, so he had a "rejection" reaction.

His brain refused to believe the whole thing for a period of time. When the [rejection] reaction appeared, Sun Xiangyun instinctively [escape]. Each of us has this instinct. This is part of our evolution. This instinct In fact, it is not a bad thing. On the contrary, it is very good and has protected the development of human civilization to this day. "

Hearing this, Liu Yiming took a long breath and said, "So that's it."

Muchun poured a cup of coffee for Liu Yiming, and then explained: "This [escape] instinct protects us, but sometimes it can also restrict a person's movement and become a kind of [action paralysis]. Sun Xiangyun is in this situation." A state of paralysis, even neurological dysfunction, and suddenly unable to walk."

"So serious?" Liu Yiming asked.

"Sometimes this kind of loss of action lasts for a long time, and it varies from person to person. Sun Xiangyun has a strong cognitive ability and a strong sense of responsibility. Part of him knows that this matter is very serious, but the other part refuses to think about it. I Just help him come out and see the whole thing at the right time, look at it from the perspective of a bystander, and then let him vent his sadness, which suppresses him and blocks part of his behavior. Motivation and thinking power.

After these things were completed step by step, his knot in his heart was untied.

With a simple metaphor, you can understand that a person's brain or heart is frozen by ice cubes. We need to break the ice cubes or let them melt. I just did such a thing, which is not worth mentioning. "

Liu Yiming took notes carefully, and Mu Chun said: "Don't take notes like this. You and Chu Sisi have the same habit. This habit is not good and does not conform to the laws of human memory. When you are listening to someone speak At this time, you have to use your heart, your thoughts and your brain to listen. If you borrow a recorder or notebook or other tools at this time, your brain will naturally relax a part, and subconsciously you will feel that there is something to help me remember. Now, I can be lazy~~~~~The same goes for listening to lectures in the classroom. Don’t take notes while listening to the lecture. Try to recall the notes during the first review, and pay full attention when listening.”

"It turns out there is such a truth. I really learned another skill." Liu Yiming happily closed the note.

Mu Chun burst into laughter, "I haven't even explained the principle behind it yet, but I already understood it as soon as I saw it. It's really amazing."

Liu Yiming stood up contentedly and was about to leave. At this time, he saw Liu Hua's sister, Liu Yue.

Liu Yiming looked back at Mu Chun in surprise. Mu Chun shook his head. Liu Yiming glanced at Liu Yue solemnly, and then left the clinic uneasily.

Before he could say hello to Chu Sisi, Liu Yiming hurried to the police station to work.

Although this matter was handled well and Liu Yiming became more and more confident, he still felt that he might not have a particularly good solution next time he encountered a situation like Sun Xiangyun's.

If only I could learn these methods from Muchun~~~~~~~~~

Liu Yiming accelerated his pace. If he wanted to perform better, he should spend more time studying.

He secretly made a decision to find some books on psychosomatics to read, and maybe ask Professor Chu Xiaofeng.

Endless learning is the right path in life.