Crazy Psychologist

I don't know how long it took before Bai Lu regained consciousness.

"I'm sorry." Bai Lu said.

"Ah? It's okay. I'm just afraid that we will be trending on Weibo tomorrow."

"How come?" Bai Lu grinned.

"Some people would be interested in a Weibo post like [Stalking a pianist at a hot pot restaurant and beating him up]."

"Did you do it on purpose?" Bai Lu asked.

"Ah, it was seen." Muchun pretended to scratch his chin.

"Well, I can see it. He's really pretending to be like me. It would be a pity not to act."

"Don't say that, I really like Teacher Bai Lu too." Muchun said softly!

Just like the real thing!

"If I hadn't suddenly remembered the sign at the door of the outpatient clinic on the fifth floor, I might have fought with a female patient to enter the outpatient clinic one morning."

"Eh? It seems like that's the case." Muchun agreed.

"Yes, it was just a few weeks ago, so that time I looked at the brand specifically, and I was quite impressed by the three words [Psychiatric Department]. Therefore, a doctor of the Psychosomatic Department will naturally be a little different. If he is just a doctor, As an ordinary doctor, I’m afraid I’d be deceived without even knowing it.”

Bai Lu smiled half-heartedly, but her mood was much more stable than before.

"It seems like I am praising [psychiatric] doctors. In fact, they are ordinary doctors, and they may not be as good as ordinary doctors."

Muchun lowered his head, and Bai Lu suspected that he had seen something wrong. Why did he feel that the shameless doctor just now suddenly felt a deep sadness?

"So the treatment of the psychosomatic department is not just limited to the treatment in the hospital? I'm afraid it's not as simple as prescribing medication or checking."

Bai Lu held her head with her right hand and looked at Muchun's face.

Muchun suddenly became embarrassed, "Don't look at me like this. No girl has ever looked at me like this."

The atmosphere suddenly relaxed, and Bai Lu sighed, "Okay, I won't look at you. Your treatment may have some effect."

"Really? I just felt it at first. I always felt that there was something I didn't notice. In the chain of [loneliness]-[alcohol]-[indulgence]-[pain], I always felt that there was something I didn't notice. I have reached the place, so I want to look for it again, find a better breakthrough point, rub the jam, and untie the chain."

"Well, you probably helped me realize that."

Bai Lu smiled.

"Really? Then we may have missed the mark. I would say that Teacher Bai Lu definitely has the potential to become a psychosomatic doctor."

"Really? No, I'm just a patient. Loneliness is a disease. Not knowing how to refuse is also a disease. I make myself very hard. I don't dare to say anything I'm not satisfied with. My husband, maybe as long as If you tell him early on that you don't like him traveling all the time, maybe it won't be like this.

Ever since I was little, I have always been afraid that others would be unhappy, whether at home, at school, or among my classmates, but it seemed that others would not be really happy just because of my compromise. "

"[Pleasing personality] is very common." Mu Chun explained that almost every pleaser knows very well that if you don't know how to refuse, it will be very tiring, and it will be very hard to please others. Sometimes this matter is really not about you. I want to do that, but if I don’t do that, others will be unhappy.

They are sensitive and even fragile.

Sometimes I think, what a wonderful thing it would be if the world really became a better place because of the kindness of [pleasant personality]. These people lose themselves as they endure it again and again, some become more and more lonely, and some become more and more weak.

But contrary to expectations, the world has not become a better place because of the self-sacrifice of [pleasant personalities]. They have become a natural tool for others to use. They satisfy others but hurt themselves. At this time, they have to make up a story about the past. Explain to make things not look so bad. Your weakness is not because you don't know how to say no - it's because there are always good parts in agreeing.

For example, you can take revenge on your husband, increase work experience, or bring glory to the school.

They are always very selfless, and it is almost difficult to refuse anyone's request. Even if it is an unreasonable request or an excessive work that is completely outside the scope of their duties, they will try to understand these requests and "agree to the request" in their minds. Become rationalized. Things like wronging oneself and fulfilling others often happen to such people.

However, as for the [pleasers] themselves, they seem to be people who have no requirements. It seems that my thoughts are not important in front of the request. Because they don’t like to conflict with others, they always instinctively avoid all quarrels with others, such as Say no to a request for help at work or an invitation from a man you don't like.

Before a conflict occurs or is about to occur, they tend to choose compromise, tolerance and forget it. "

Bai Lu cried, because she had been wronged for many years, and because she finally understood that she could try to change this problem.

"Experiencing a [complete crush] may lead to changes, or [complete despair], and being pushed to an unbearable point. Sometimes it may be a physical breakdown. The fatigue of working overtime for a long time and no rest body and sensitive nerves." Muchun further explained.

"Why am I like this? Why am I the only one like this? Everyone else in the school can give me their work. I just find it troublesome to refuse. Why is it so difficult to say it out loud? If it hadn't been for Mu just now Doctor, you~~~~~~~"

"I'm just so disgusted, aren't I?"

Muchun said with a smile.

Bai Lu nodded, "Yes, a little."

"It's like the guy who's cross-dressing, because it's so disgusting that when you reach your limit, the chain is broken."

"Unintentional treatment?" Bai Lu asked.

"Well, you are indeed a good material for a psychosomatic doctor. If you have a chance, you must join us."

Mu Chun's invitation seemed sincere, but Bai Lu neither nodded nor agreed. She was wondering if this was also the "me" of the "pleasant personality" at work. When hearing this kind of invitation, she always thought about what she would do if she If you agree, the other party will be happy, and the scene will look warm and harmonious.

"I have a presumptuous question to ask Teacher Bai, just to accumulate some experience for encountering the same patients in the future."

Muchun said sincerely.

"Well, okay, you can ask."

"I want to know if there was anything special about your childhood?"

"My childhood?" Bai Lu thought for a while, "My childhood was spent practicing piano. I have always been an excellent girl, very excellent, until one day I could no longer show my parents my excellent results.