365 Kinds of Difficult Living Methods

Xia Yihan sat behind the iron fence, and the guards stood behind her. Chu Yu guessed that her injury was crusted and she could not wear handcuffs, so she put on a remodeled restraint suit, with her hands folded on her chest, like a child who was angry. .

The moment he saw Chu Yu, Xia Yihan's eyes were a little blank, his eyes moved left and right, trying to avoid.

Chu Yu saw her reaction in his eyes, and was frightened, afraid that she hadn't seen her for half a month, and she finally came out and went back.

Chu Yu tried to talk to her, Xia Yihan remained silent for a while, but still spoke.

"Is your injury better?"

Xia Yihan's eyes settled, falling on her face, and replied in a proper manner: "Okay, sister."

As she said, she looked at the two people around Chu Yu and felt uncomfortable, but she didn't show it. Chu Yu knew her habit. In the two-person world, she could play around at will, but as long as other creatures broke in, Will immediately change face, quiet and indifferent.

"How are you feeling now?"

"I feel that my elf is back." When she said this, the brilliance and brightness in her eyes increased at the same time, as if the soul had been spared for a while, and finally returned to the body.

Chu Yu thought to herself, this girl still thinks she is a witch, but fortunately she came to write the story two months ago, changed the ending, and stayed at the entrance of the cave for two months, otherwise the little witch would still be there. Confinement in the cave.

Before coming, Chu Yu and the police had a seemingly harmonious but fierce discussion about Xia Yihan’s situation—the police wanted to get a confession as soon as possible to make it easier for the Liangshui case to make a breakthrough, but Chu Yu advocated to deal with Xia Yihan’s psychological problems first. Conduct counseling, because during the interrogation process, Xia Yihan will definitely be stimulated. If Xia Yihan returns to the previous situation, it will be difficult to obtain a confession again.

Finally, the police voted against it. Chu Yu voted in favor and tied with one to one. However, she pulled the appraisal expert to her side, so she won two to one and adopted her plan for the interview.

Therefore, in the first week of meeting with Xia Yihan, Chu Yu mainly cared about her mental and physical conditions. Even if the case was involved, it was also an aid in understanding and analyzing her psychology.

The two men talked mentally for a week, and Chu Yu tried his best to lead, and when the case was over, Xia Yihan no longer avoided some sensitive issues. The more Chu wanted to know, she said nothing.

Sometimes, Xia Yihan couldn't accurately summarize the reason for the behavior, and Chu Yu said to her: "It's okay. Just tell me your feelings and thoughts."

The conversation lasted for two weeks, systematic and regular, Chu Yu seemed to have passed through the fog, persevering, and finally opened the sleeping stone gate, and saw clearly the world she had never reached before.

That world is a frozen place. The frozen things are pressed into the deepest part of Xia Yihan's consciousness, wrapped in her personality disorder, forming a special form of stress disorder.

Chu Yu is no stranger to post-traumatic stress disorder. She has been exposed to similar cases in the past, but she has never seen anyone who can hide the trauma so well and disguise it so well.

Chu Yu had to admit that she had been deceived by Xia Yihan for a long time, and she always thought she was fearless.

This time, Chu Yu opened the research materials on PTSD again, planning to learn the previous knowledge again, she remembered it, but when she read it again, she would still be surprised and uncomfortable.

Common trauma, sex, incidents, including natural disasters, interpersonal conflicts, serious trauma, witnessing the death of others or being tortured, and terrorist, violent or other criminal acts.

The emergency obstacles stem from the experience of traumatic events. They surpass people's normal endurance and completely defeat people's normal ability to deal with problems.

And Xia Yihan’s trauma, sex, event is to witness and experience the death of the person she loves most. She has experienced the departure of her mother, the departure of her best friend, and the departure of her father. The feeling she gets is that she will be abandoned by the person she loves most. Leave.

Thinking about this, Chu Yu also solved the mystery of Xia Yihan's "mutation".

The main symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder include two points. The first is avoidance. "Once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of well ropes" is an example. In many cases, in order to avoid triggering memories of trauma again, patients will In the rest of life, try to avoid contact with traumatic experience related things, avoid contact with people related to the traumatic event, do not go to the place where the event occurred, and "forget" the details of the event, burying the original human and The emotion of things, keep a distance from others.

For Xia Yihan, the possibility of being "abandoned and left behind by the one you love the most" is the inducement that triggers traumatic memories. She will avoid it because it is beyond her own capacity and she cannot cope.

The second point is to evoke reactions, which are manifested as easy anger, easy fright, insomnia, nervousness and anxiety, overreaction to small things, and inability to concentrate.

In the later period of getting along with Chu Yu, Xia Yihan described her feelings as "very uncomfortable", among which was the physical and psychological response to triggering traumatic memories.

Chu Yu knows that unlike physical trauma, psychological trauma does not heal naturally. If people cannot digest it on their own, the longer the time, the feeling of trauma will permeate subjective interpretations, behavioral patterns, and cognitive models, and be suppressed. Into the symptoms of other psychological disorders, such as personality disorders.

After Xia Yihan was injured, she was not resolved, but suppressed into her subconscious, aggravating the symptoms of anti-social personality disorder, manifested in the form of indifference and mercilessness.

In addition, when people face setbacks and anxiety, they will activate the self-protection mechanism, which mainly maintains psychological balance by distorting reality.

Combining the above facts, through recollection and analysis, Chu Yu determined that Xia Yihan also activated self-defense when facing her.

The first is depression, which refers to suppressing concepts, emotions, or impulses that are unacceptable to the unconscious, so that people cannot realize their existence. This suppressed impulse and desire have not disappeared, they have been active unconsciously, and appear in the form of disguise through the action of other psychological mechanisms.

Xia Yihan cares about her mother. She wants to get the attention and acceptance of the person she loves, but she suppresses that desire, and unconsciously, when facing Chu Yu, it is like flooding the floodgates, all exposed, she I felt that it was attracting Chu Yu's attention and confusing her, but in fact I wanted Chu Yu to love her and pay attention to her.

The second is rationalization, also known as literary effect, which refers to unconsciously using a plausible explanation, or actually untenable reasons, to justify unacceptable emotions, behaviors, or motives to make them acceptable . For example, "If you can't eat grapes, you say grapes are sour." By thinking that grapes are sour, you can get a balance in your heart for yourself who can't eat grapes.

Xia Yihan told Chu Yu that during the whole process, she wanted to break her neck, thinking that she was a hypocritical woman. Chu Yu smiled and knew that she was rationalizing her emotions. She wanted to approach her through revenge as an excuse. , Which made the mentality of relying on her reasonable, but in fact, when she was by her side, she had forgotten to take revenge. For example, she had no reaction when facing Chu Dongren. After inducing a reaction to the trauma, she restarted her determination to revenge.

After clarifying Xia Yihan's psychological problems, as well as the reasons for her "drawing swords and facing each other" and "silence", Chu Yu breathed a sigh of relief, but at the same time, her heart tightened.

Treating PTSD is also a long process. She knows that she will not be in a hurry for a while, and there are many "light bulbs" around her who are scorching hot and cannot guarantee the effect, so she can only do her best and try her best to assure Xia Yihan: I We will not leave, and you will not stay, we will hold hands and walk shoulder to shoulder, each pair of footprints are closely adjacent, facing forward.

This is exactly the promise she kept in front of the detention center in the past two months and fulfilled in advance—Xia Yihan felt it, and this gave her the courage to rush out of the detention center to meet her.

After receiving the assurance, Xia Yihan's mood stabilized a little. The police might feel that there was no change. They just listened to the two people chatting like mental illness, but Chu Yu felt the same way.

Two weeks later, Chu Yu finally let go and confirmed that Xia Yihan was able to stand trial and could be interrogated.

The roller coaster passed one mountain peak and drove to another mountain peak.

This time, in addition to the role of a psychologist, she has to take on the responsibility of the interrogator.

On March 15, Chu Yu, police representatives, and appraisal experts once again gathered in the detention center.

Chu Yu changed the topic and introduced the facts of the case: "From today, I will ask you about the details of the crime, and I hope you can answer with your cooperation."

Xia Yihan didn't speak.

Chu Yu further said: "If we finish recording the confession earlier, the matter can be resolved sooner."

"After I say it, can I meet you?"

Chu Yu nodded: "Yes."

She can't guarantee that she can only take one step and look one step at a time, but she has survived all the difficulties that can drive people crazy, and the skin is thick.

But Xia Yihan was not satisfied with this answer: "I mean there is no such an eye-obtrusive iron fence, there are other people who are in the way."

The police representatives and appraisal experts around Chu Yu became stiff. They were personalities in the industry anyway, so why were they inexplicably turned into "obtrusive crowds"?

Chu Yu pursed his lips and nodded to her.

After receiving assurances, Xia Yihan began to confess the crime and confessed the facts of the crime. The police representative worked hard to make notes. If he did not control his expression, he would now be in tears. The confession of the word was not recorded, and now Xia Yihan finally spoke like a spring, fulfilling his great regret.

In the part involving the Sophora japonica project, Xia Yihan's confession is similar to the investigation and analysis of Superman, and it is also consistent with other people's confessions.

The police once again saw Xia Yihan's psychological quality. He was indeed a person who had experienced the big wind and waves. He was calm and calm even when he stated his crimes, as if he was a bystander, describing the little mess that he couldn't deal with.

Xia Yihan only talks about facts, not feelings. He is a locust carving machine without feelings.

But there is only one motive for the crime. Whoever killed her dad and who she killed could not run away.

The police representative couldn't help but wanted to interrupt, but only after thinking about it, he finally swallowed everything. They had agreed before they came, and Chu Yu was responsible for questioning the whole process, in case the suspect was irritated, and refused to provide a confession again.

After all the details of the case came out, the meeting time was almost over. Before leaving, Chu Yu approached the iron fence and whispered to Xia Yihan, "You have to behave well inside, and I will see you the day after tomorrow!"

Xia Yihan nodded respectfully, and was led out of the reception room by the guard.

Returning to Superman, the clerk was more excited than Chuyu and asked her about her progress. Xia Yihan was the biggest difficulty in their current career. The ability to overcome her was simply a glorious stroke in the history of Superman. .

After learning the result, the clerk cheered and congratulated, Song Qingyang raised his hands and slapped his hands, Fang Datuo planned to complete the table with red wine and steak.

Chu Yu watched the sergeants' posture of "Celebrating the whole world" and poured cold water in time: "I'm sorry, the main event is the day after tomorrow."